2026-03-27T11:12:55.230Z

Vanessa has a unique way of communicating and listening which separates her from others in her field, true kindness and understanding and is just brilliant. If your looking for someone to help you reset your life no need to go passed her site, just reach out to her.

2026-03-12T01:42:24.730Z

I recently got to hear Vanessa speak live as a guest on a milestone 200th episode podcast at my event venue.While working in my office, I was listening to her speak and I just had to drop what I was doing to see what was unfolding in in my space. Vanessa explains communication and emotional connection in such a clear, relatable way i felt like she was talking to me. Her insights were compassionate and practical. You can tell she deeply cares about helping people build stronger and healthier relationships. I went home to my wife and gave her a big hug and told her how much she meant to me. Thank you Vanessa.

2026-03-07T19:29:14.012Z

Vanessa is a very eloquent and mindful guest who articulates well and knows what she is aiming for as a guest.

2026-03-07T19:28:25.552Z

Vanessa is amazing at what she does. I have one word. Wow!

2026-03-06T01:26:57.164Z

I have had the privilege of knowing Vanessa Cardenas for more than 30 years as her OB/Gyn, and over that time I’ve witnessed firsthand the strength, resilience, and personal growth she has shown through many of life’s challenges.Vanessa brings a rare combination of empathy, insight, and authenticity to her work as a relationship reset expert. Her ability to transform difficult personal experiences into wisdom that helps others is truly remarkable. She has always approached life with determination and grace, and those qualities now shine through in the guidance and support she offers to others who are navigating relationship struggles.Anyone working with Vanessa will find someone who genuinely listens, understands, and is deeply committed to helping people reset, rebuild, and move forward in healthier, more fulfilling ways. I have no doubt that the same resilience and compassion I’ve observed over decades make her an exceptional guide for those seeking meaningful change in their relationships.

2026-03-04T02:02:38.233Z

I have known Vanessa Cardenas for more than 30 years and have had the privilege of watching her leadership evolve over decades.While I have not been a formal client of Understanding Ear, I have personally sought Vanessa’s perspective and guidance many times over the years. She has a rare ability to listen without rushing to fix, to create clarity in emotionally charged situations, and to offer grounded, practical insight that helps people move forward with confidence.What sets Vanessa apart is her steadiness. She does not react impulsively or offer surface-level advice. She takes the time to understand context, emotion, and complexity before speaking, and when she does, her guidance is thoughtful, measured and helpful.Anyone navigating relationship challenges or personal transition would be in capable, steady hands with Vanessa.

2026-03-02T10:22:52.645Z

Vanessa was a recent guest on my podcast, The Teaching Journeys Podcast where she shared her work as a betrayal recovery specialist. She is knowledgeable, passionate about her work , and most importantly relatable. It is easy to see why she is so effective as a relationship therapist.

2026-01-16T16:30:39.537Z

Relationship expert Vanessa Cardenas is a Breath of Fresh Air! She’s a straight shooter who delivers her coaching with LOVE. ❤️ Her passion to help people heal from betrayal is a MUCH NEEDED SERVICE in the world today.

2026-01-13T18:12:52.104Z

I had Vanessa on my podcast Empowerography as a guest recently, where we discussed the work she does and all the people she helps with their relationships. Vanessa is incredible at what she does. She has so much personal experience through her own life and story which then translates beautifully to being able to help in the work she does with her clients, which in my opinion is so much more valuable than anything you can read or study in a book. Vanessa is the real deal, she knows her stuff and I highly recommend her to anyone who is going through or dealing with struggles in their relationship. Vanessa is definitely the coach you want to work with.

2025-11-15T17:53:19.929Z

Update: If you check out Mrs. Cardenas you will find her growing and giving so much of herself. It is rare to find a truest heart in a sea of many, but I can definitely say that she is one. If you need navigation through betrayal, one of life's most devastating storms, this beautiful heart is the one to guide you. You'll see....--------------------Mrs. Cardenas makes a difference. She is down to earth, so kind and very generous with her time, knowledge and free resources on her website. She gives comfort and inspires hope when it seems hard to find it.I cannot recommend her enough. I can promise you will not regret it!!!

2025-09-23T18:28:44.761Z

Vanessa Cardenas has been a true blessing for our marriage. After trying several other therapists, including a very well known and expensive one in NYC, she was the first to truly make a difference. She is personable, knowledgeable, and down to earth, and her personalized approach and encouragement gave us hope and healing. Unlike others who were divorced and whose advice felt hollow, Vanessa lives by example, having worked through betrayal in her own marriage, her experience and resilience gave us real hope.

2025-09-22T19:09:46.140Z

Vanessa is an incredible resource in navigating life’s transitions! So thankful for her guidance

2025-07-15T03:52:22.006Z

Vanessa Carsenas is masterful at guiding those who've been deeply wounded by the betrayal of trust in their marriages to a place of healing and renewal. Her writings and videos and workshops are full of compassion and smarts. Like a loving wizard she has transformed her own heartbreak into a passionate mission to lift others out of the depths of their despair, to find their footing again and to walk on with a regained emotional strength. I can't say enough about the resources she provides. What gifts she gives to others. And what an invaluable gift she is herself!

2025-06-15T17:11:24.751Z

Very calming experience with a heart that listens and responds appropriately. The antithesis of talking to a wall or waiting for an echo.....

2025-06-06T13:07:03.080Z

I had the pleasure of working with Vanessa to record her 6 Phase Meditation – The Healing Edition, and it was clear from the very beginning that this project was deeply personal and filled with purpose. Her level of presence, intention, and commitment to getting every word, breath, and pause just right was something I rarely see.Vanessa is more than a speaker or guide. She brings her full heart into the room. She was very clear about wanting this meditation to serve people who are healing from emotional pain, and she approached every moment in the studio with care and precision.From a recording perspective, her professionalism made the process smooth, and her voice work was powerful, grounded, and sincere. It was truly an honor to help bring this piece to life.If you are looking for someone who brings both technical clarity and emotional depth, Vanessa offers both in a way that stays with you.

2025-05-30T20:48:42.455Z

I had the privilege of photographing Vanessa at a speaking event this year, and I was truly impressed by her presence both on and off stage. Before and after her presentation, Vanessa was incredibly kind and welcoming in our one-on-one interactions - she has a genuine warmth that immediately puts you at ease.When she took the stage, her energy was absolutely magnetic. You couldn't help but be drawn into her story. Vanessa has that rare gift of making you want to lean in, take notes, and truly absorb what she's sharing. Her speaking style creates an atmosphere where the audience feels both inspired and engaged.Vanessa's authentic energy and natural ability to connect with her audience made my job effortless. She's the kind of speaker who leaves a lasting impression long after the event ends.Highly recommend Vanessa for any speaking engagement - she brings both substance and heart to everything she does.

2025-05-29T08:38:12.016Z

Vanessa had a sense of knowing, intuition and skill that made the session more valuable than I could have imagined. Was skilled, kind, and "spot-on". Looking forward to more sessions together!

2025-05-28T09:36:30.141Z

I had the opportunity to hear Ms. Cardenas speak in Tyson's Corner and learned immediately that she is an ENTIRE force! Vanessa is such a masterful storyteller that she had the entire room leaning in. She took us on an emotional journey as we learned not only about her, but ourselves as well.

2025-05-26T03:38:36.845Z

Vanessa possesses the listening ability and the gift of an understanding ear. Even coaches need coaches, and I wouldn't trust any other coach. Her experience, skills, and the space she provides me are invaluable. Thank you for being there when I must unravel and find my north.

2025-02-11T21:17:03.008Z

Vanessa has provided me some good insight and is a pleasure to work with.